It's great to keep in touch with our family and friends, but we should understand that our conversations are never really private. With this in mind, common sense is your best weapon:

• Configure your settings to prompt prior to receiving files over any Instant Messaging program.
• Do not enter profile information into an Instant Messaging Program.
• Set your IM privacy level to only allow those people on your buddy list to see you when you're online.
• Set up a free web-based email account somewhere to receive junk mail, should the Instant Messaging company require an email address when you register and download their product. You can then login to the web-based email account once per month, to show activity and avoid web-based email cancellation.
• AOL Users: Set up a screen name to receive no email and use that screen name to chat.
• Monitor your child(ren)'s chat activities. Also, review the chat history. Set up parental controls, if available.

There are so many great software products out on the market to make your computer do anything you want it to. Surfer beware!

• Before you download any freeware, software, or utility, carefully review their privacy statement and software policy. Since some websites don't always disclose spyware or malware presence, check the software against a spyware database.
• Many companies bundle third party software within their downloads and CDs. When installing a downloaded program or CD, select "Custom Install" instead of "Automatic Install", to enable you to review and de-select auto-checked add-ons you don't want on your computer.
• If you suspect you've downloaded spyware, download and run a Spyware/Adware Remover, to remove existing spyware.